Not listening
Not listening is normal
No one listens all the time
Make sure you’ve got your child’s attention
Great Options
Set the rule - “We listen to each other”
Think about others - “How do you feel when people do not listen to you”
Teach why - “We will have more good times together if we listen to each other”
Set future expectations - “Next time, I expect you to listen”
Later, give praise - “I was really proud of the way you listened”
Good Options After Others Have Been Tried
Change your daily schedule
Time-out or take away a privilege
Not Recommended
Spanking
Raising your voice
